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11. by Theo on 2004 Jun 30 - 09:10 | reply to this comment
12. Glad you and your wife are communicating about stuff, I hope things will get better for you. Your comment about not aspiring to be the sort of husband the more bodice-ripping contributors talk about had me in hysterics, I just had this vision of you coming in dressed as a pirate or something brandishing a cutlass. That thing your wife said about a strong line being drawn between fantasy and reality - I used to think that too. It took me years to sort out that what I thought was a fantasy was what I actually wanted to be reality. This site has done very strange things to me.
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14. by Louise C on 2004 Jun 30 - 16:05 | reply to this comment
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16. Pick maybe half a dozen articles and send her the links directly to those articles - if you can, try to find ones that will mesh with your wife's views and feelings. There will be stuff here she finds offputting at first - she may discover she later finds some of it interesting, but not something she'd want to do.
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20. "There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so" Hamlet, somewhere.
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