https://bit.ly/3AxjaEe https://bit.ly/32yUA9D https://bit.ly/3g1auwo https://bit.ly/3nZ5YCY https://bit.ly/3IC7dA7 https://bit.ly/3r1kf40 https://bit.ly/3qYKp7E https://bit.ly/3G8cm0V https://bit.ly/3g1m4rE https://bit.ly/3rQWAmi https://bit.ly/33NTwiS https://bit.ly/3rQDjkM https://bit.ly/3fWVC2b https://bit.ly/3KLg18D https://bit.ly/3g0PC8I https://bit.ly/35qwHlH https://bit.ly/3IFzVQq Louise, I enjoy reading your feisty posts. (I wonder if you're related to my great aunt Maude on my father's side?) I may not always agree with everything you post, but you certainly hold nothing back, and you seem to know your own mind quite well. Regards, Ameribritwife by AMERIBRITWIFE on 2005 Apr 11 - 18:31 | reply to this comment What it means to me I perceive this article as being about how the leader of the relationship should surround their significant other with, love, protection,and caring and then also take the initiative to see to it that she feels that you are putting her first and making her your passion in life. I could not lead my wife and our relationship if I were not putting her first, and thinking one step ahead at all times. I require my wife to keep the doors and windows locked at our house when I am not home. The reason for this is at least I can feel that she is safe as she can be. I think that this is another way that she can feel my presence and she has even mentioned that this helps her feel connected when I am not at home. And Yes!!! I have come home before and have found the door unlocked and guess what, she promptly got her bottom spanked. I could never, ever, live with myself if something were to happen to my wife because the right amount of caution was not taken. My wife does not feel that I micro-manage her in any way, quite the contrary, she is quite comfortable with the guidelines we set, and we stay away from making rules just for the sake of making rules -- we feel that would be way to taxing on our relationship. After reading more than just a few posts by Taken in Hand women such as Blush, Tevmer, and several others, it seems that what they all really desire is the caring and the attention that you speak of in your article. Kudos, Noone and thanks again for a great article! Race by poco on 2005 Apr 12 - 00:46 | reply to this comment