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I have strong feeling for her, but I have pretended this week that it was an ordinary friendship, just because I felt that I was spooking her a little.


Dude, you went on a date with her ONE TIME. She was probably the one decent looking girl to talk to you, and now you have all of these "strong feelings" for her. You're being desperate. And yes, you are scaring her. Leave her alone. It's the best thing you can do for the both of you.

I hope you can give me some advice, other than just forget it.

Thank You,


For your sake, forget it. I know it sounds harsh, but it needs to be said.

I ran into this post over on the direct boards. Here is a post by DonSuave. Never before have I ran into someone that actually understands the dynamics of picking up women as clearly as he does. Remember when I put up that post about a Level 5 player? Well, this guy has game. Recognize:


"From what I can read from you, you're still naturalizing all of this. It's good you have this attitude but when all of what you just written will be natural for you you won't be so adamant about your views. Trust me. I used to be the most direct guy ever. I had to done down my style in social situations, because let me tell you, when you are super direct it makes people uneasy, people feel weird and they associates those weird feelings with you making you weird.

So when you enter a set there is this uneasyness in the air...

There's a time and place for everything. And once you sort out the game you will see that being direct is a state of mind, not an approach. For example, at my job, I can work 3 months with a girl and then 1 day I want to fuck her and I will make it happen and get the lay.

What is my state of mind?